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Many people are familiar with the concepts of "fight or flight" when discussing trauma and stress. We often hear about the body's instinct to confront danger or escape it. However, there is another survival response that receives far less attention but can have a profound impact on daily life: the freeze response. If you've ever felt emotionally numb, disconnected from yourself, unable to make decisions, chronically exhausted, or stuck in patterns that seem impossible to chan

If you've been considering EMDR therapy, you may have wondered whether revisiting traumatic experiences could make things worse before they get better. It's one of the most common concerns people have when exploring treatment for trauma, anxiety, PTSD, or distressing life experiences. The idea of discussing painful memories can feel intimidating. Many people have spent years trying not to think about certain events, and the thought of bringing them into therapy may trigger un

A traumatic event can change the way the brain processes information, emotions, and even everyday experiences. Whether trauma stems from an accident, abuse, violence, loss, medical emergencies, or other distressing experiences, its effects can linger long after the event has passed. For many people, traumatic memories remain vivid, emotionally charged, and difficult to move beyond. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is an evidence-based treatment des

When most people think about trauma, they often picture catastrophic events such as combat, natural disasters, serious accidents, or violent assaults. They may also associate trauma treatment exclusively with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). While PTSD is one possible outcome of trauma, it is far from the only way trauma can affect a person's life. Many individuals carry the effects of unresolved trauma without meeting the criteria for PTSD. They may struggle with anxie

I just read this quote in a book by @yung_pueblo “don’t trust the way you see yourself when your mind is full of turbulence” and it got me thinking about how when we are dysregulated, our brain produces thoughts that match the state of disharmony that our body is experiencing. In a state of dysregulation, our mind tends to filter it’s perception through a lens of fear, negativity, or catastrophizing. This is why it’s important not to trust the thought processes that take plac

This book was gifted to me in January after the fires by a dear friend who knew it was special to me and a part of my daily morning ritual. It felt so comforting to have the book again. Each morning that I see it, it acts as a daily reminder for me that there is light in this world and of the outpouring of kindness and support that was experienced in such a dark time. It represents hope. It helps me hold inside both the despair about the state of the world AND faith in humani

I recently came across this quote- “Imagine reading a book with no way to turn back the page, how carefully would you read it? That’s life.” Impermanence never takes a break.There is never a moment when we are not in transition. We are always in between the past and the future, between the memory of what happened before and the approaching state of what soon will be become memory as well. Knowing we can never recreate moments and memories to me feels like an authentic invitat

Taking care of yourself is the practice of loving yourself enough to not only listen to your own needs, but to also HONOR those needs, even if it means disappointing another. Self-honoring and showing up for yourself means not making other’s feelings/needs more important than your own. As self-love increases, tolerance for self-abandonment/self-betrayal (through putting other’s needs first) decreases. Growing up in a family where boundaries were enmeshed and your role may hav

When the masculine energy of go, go, go, do, do, do takes over, it can be quite difficult to come out of this mode of being. We live in a culture that fosters being addicted to “doing.” So many of us feel we go through phases of sleepwalking through life, simply going through the motions, and feeling monotonous and stuck in the routine, craving a fresh perception. I.e-The way a child feels when they’re awe-struck with life and in a state of complete wonder. The way we feel wh

“What we are reluctant to touch often seems the very fabric of our salvation.” One of the gifts of this time period is spaciousness in our days. Without being in normal “hustle and grind” mode, for some of us, this may be the first time in our adult lives that we have had this much space to be still. Being busy is often used as a coping mechanism to run away from what we would be forced to feel if we slowed down. Now that we have all slowed down, there is much more space to f